I learned a very valuable lesson during my initial attempt to sleep with a lot of women. I learned that I can get a lot of what I want as long as I push for it. All of our lives, we're told not to ask for what we want (because it's rude), we always think that we're going to be told "no" if we ask for something, and/or we imagine the repercussions to be a near infinite number of times worse than what they really will be. Now some of you have dealt with this, but only to a minor degree. You've simply learned to approach women. That's good and all, but there's so much more you can get by just pushing things to the limit. Once I got over the "rudeness" of things, being afraid of being told "no", and became immune to the fear of repercussions, that's when things got really interesting.

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Once I started pushing things as far as I could, and demanded and asked for whatever it is that I wanted, I started to get a lot of it. I'd go for a kiss, but the girl might reject me, only not to leave, and end up kissing me anyway. I learned that girls would turn down my initial attempt to have sex, only to end up having sex with me later anyway. I learned that girls would say that they weren't going to come home with me, only to later come home with me anyway. On top of that, there were the many, many, many times when I thought that a girl wouldn't do what I wanted, or give me what I wanted, but ended up giving it to me, or doing what I wanted, just because I went past the logical "limits" that most people would have assumed were there. I'd do something totally unexpected or inappropriate, but end up being successful without any kind of resistance.

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You're either going to live your life as a beta male, or an alpha male. One of you commenters asked me how to become a man. The answer is simple: you push everything to the limit. While beta males are careful not to cross boundaries, or push beyond what they think is socially acceptable, alpha males simply do whatever they want until they figure out where that boundary really is. Why? Because just because someone says that there is a boundary, or a boundary is assumed, that doesn't mean that is where the actual boundary is.

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For example, let's say you're at, I don't know, Steak N' Shake late at night and you approach a girl. You could assume that she will not sleep with you that night. And she could say that she would never sleep with a guy in a restaurant bathroom. However, you will never truly know until you actually try to take her to the bathroom and have sex with her. The beta male will go by the assumed boundary, and go by what she says, but a true alpha male will just try to do it and see what happens.*

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I believe that I've made my point. If you want what you want, then push for it. Most of the time, that's the only way that you're going to get it. You'll never know what women will let you do and get away with until you actually try. And even if they draw a boundary, it doesn't mean that you can't go past it or that she won't change her mind about where the boundary actually is and end up giving you what you wanted anyway. Know what you want and push it to the limit.

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*To illustrate this point even further, I wanna ask you a couple of questions. How many women who have had one-night stands will actually admit that they'll have them? That's my point exactly. And to the ones who have had one, how many of them actually planned on having them? Every woman that has had a one-night stand had to have her first one, and it was most likely with a guy that went past the assumed boundaries, and/or the boundaries that she said she had.

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